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Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Fed up...

I'm not even sure where to start...I feel like i'm being walked all over. I love my husband...I'm just tired of doing EVERYTHING. We are in the process of purchasing a house...a stressful time for anyone. It doesn't help that he is going out to sea and leaving me to get together all the documentation needed for the mortgage. Leaves me with another house to pack up myself. Of course when something goes wrong...its all my fault. I left the butter out on the counter after dinner and he was pissed....over butter. Seriously??? WTF. And last night...I was taking a first time home buyer course...that he NEEDED to be taking...and he said something to the effect of "your not that smart, are you?" Obviously I'm not since i'm doing his f-ing work for him. Ugghh...just need to get it all out...and looking forward to when this process is over.

1 comments:

Anonymous said...

Girl, homebuying is stressful! I'd be over there this afternoon with some wine... if Ellie Jo weren't sick :( It'll be over soon and you'll have a wonderful new home to show for it! Next time he is upset about something like the butter, leave it on his side of the bed. Then at least he'll have a reason to be upset (LOL). Seriously though, it doesn't hurt butter to leave it out. He must be stressed out, too, or he wouldn't be lashing out. And I think he was probably trying to be funny... men do this... they are sometimes unaware of their piss-poor timing. You are very bright and very capable. Put on your cape and by a house, superwoman! BTW, my first homebuying experience was when DH was in Korea. I did it all myself, too... the house wasn't built when DH left and he saw it for the first time when he knocked on the door. Wild.